i had a thought last nite..actually i had it for quite a time but last two nite i had a talk with a friend who had been married and blessed with 2 beautiful kids.it went like this(i spiced it up to add the flavor...hey,tak pedas tak sedap laaa)

She:He barely called when we were 'bercinta'.He called once a week and we talked about 5 minutes.Ofkos there were no mobile phones at that time.And we barely went out dating too.Most of the time i went out with my friends and he with his.Sometimes i got confused..were we having something or not?Becoz it we were not like other couple who 'asyik berkepit je'.And most girls want to be like that...want to be with their sweetheart 24/7.And so do i.But i began to accept that was his way.And now we with two boys.Sometimes you have to be patient.

Me:Owh,i never know that.I thought that kind of men were rare breed.And i'm glad the one i know is not the only man.Sometimes you never know what they are thinking.To quote Samantha from SATC 'you can lay a pussy in front of one but you still dont know what are they thinking'.Sometimes we felt like lot of signals buzzing around and sometimes the icy cold shoulder treatment.And lot of girls just get confused hence the frustrating word 'i hate waiting for you,i cant wait anymore' just flow from their mouth.And lets get frank..most women want their men to look at them and them only.Most women are 'i cant live without you'..'i want to be with you every second'..clingy creature yet very passionate about their man.After all i think patience is the key to everything.But how do we know when enough is enough?